Hi,
thank you so much for your replies everyone 🙂
Wanted to post a short update since my last post. After talking on the phone with a good friend of mine for about two hours and getting some of the hypochondria out of the way (she's a med student) I feel a lot better now. She also advised my to take Magnesium and Vitamin B6 supplement for a while since those have a calming effect and they seem to be working. I know this might be only "transitory" calmness but I'm enjoying it for now. It's actually weird feeling calm, it feels unusual 😀
Sarah, as long as the pills work for you and you are happy, it doesn't really matter that you "need" them 🙂 They just never really work for me and I don't like the idea of being reliant on any substance, be it drugs or alcohol or anything along those lines.
Thank you for your tips Larry. I always go against my fears. Every time my anxiety tells me "don't got there, don't to this, don't meet him/her" I'm like "Shut up! I'm doing what I want!" I almost never avoid doing anything because the anxiety tells me so. But where I have a problem facing my fears with, is fears that are not "physical". I'm not afraid of dogs, people, situations, hiking etc. but I am terrified of the intangible, like losing my mind, schizophrenia, loneliness, those kinds of things, and I have no idea how to face fears that are not right up in my face.
Paul, yes I do try different methods and drop them after a while and I'm aware that this is a mistake and that I should make a greater effort. However, I often feel I don't have time. I tried practicing sports every week-day for about a week but my job just doesn't allow me to do that always. I also can't take of time from work right now or work less because I have debts and pills to pay and I'm also saving up for a trip next year. I think that might be part of the issue, I don't really have time for myself as much as I used to and my hob isn't the most enjoyable either (the usual 9 to 5, repeat every day job). I do a lot of sport in the weekend, but that's about it.
I think what would make me stick to the plan would be something that can fit in my schedule and is also fun. I haven't found that one thing yet though. Sports are fun, but I unfortunately don't have as much time for them as I would like to.
Anyway, it seems like I am trying to tackle ALL of my anxiety at once which feels like holding an entire dam back from collapsing with holes showing up everywhere so I should try to take these things one by one. I just need to figure out how to prioritize them since they can be more or less important in different situations.
I postponed the idea of getting back on meds for now because deep deep deep down I can hear that inner voice telling me that I can do it without. And I've done it before, it just feels more challenging this time.
Thank your for your support everyone 🙂
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